Anna,

I know, that it is sometimes hard for you to express yourself correctly, but why you then cannot leave using sarcasm, what can be for a couple of reasons not understand by everyone?

I was also annoyed about your post, because in the best case your just supporting a double standard (which is for me questionable), in the worst violance against women (verbally "Slut" and physical "Rape"). This double standard is used by men to belittle, deny and justify their direspectful/violant behave towards women. These myths were more than once contradicted by science and are the results of socially established opinions of male and female sexuality, not facts.

The pictures you have posted have not offend me, the last one looks unnatural, that is all. To conclude from the look to a woman's mindset, moral and intelligence is a step to far. Maybe there is to blame media, if girls just take effort in their looks, then there is to also blame a whole society, which is not educating critical thinking or giving desireable and appealing alternatives.


Nicolya wrote:
But well, yes, here you are quite right but if every person one day decides that dressing  up like a porn star isn't vulgar and one day you will go out to the street and see a lot of women like this. What would you think?


It is/ has become normal for our society?!

In addition:

Since the beginning of the women's movement in the 70s, a wing has existed that has advocated the positive portrayal of sexuality and feminist pornography. This faction calls itself sexpositive feminism or, for short, PorYes. While an examination in the 80s of the sexpositive and the movement confronting sexist pornography -- known medially as the "Feminist Sex Wars" -- was going on in the anglo-saxon realm, [continental] European feminists were standing in less opposition to one another.  PorNo-Debates and campaigns took place here as well, but they proceeded in a more differentiated manner, perhaps in part due to the time lag. A sexpositive stance often grew out of, or even concurrently shaped, an antipornographic stance. Contemporary women’s attitudes toward pornography are empirically and distinctly more differentiated than they were 30 years ago: On the one hand, a high level of sensitization to discriminatory, violent portrayals of and behavior toward women and has been documented. On the other hand, a concurrent openness to consensual, sexual experimentation exists, which also holds true for pornographic portrayals.

The transformation is a result from the social movements and, primarily, the women’s movement, which has changed sexual morality over the last 35 years and introduced a morality of negotiation. Sexology mentions a fundamental change in sexual behavior brought about by women. Through the persistent raising of awareness with the establishment of women’s sex shops that provided counseling and educational offerings; high quality, functional, and aesthetic toys; informative sex reference books, and meanwhile women’s pornography, sexuality was dealt with in a more relaxed manner. These newly defined needs also found their way into the commercialized sex industry, which in turn offered attractive toy collections and mainstream porn for women. This positive step, however, does not change the fact that the majority of leading products are produced under unethical work conditions, often at the cost of the environment.

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Luna