Nicolya,
I really don't think whether I've read your words and explanations for a long time should just let you off the hook and leave you unaccountable for what you say, as though I should somehow just understand your intent. I only have your words to go by. Maybe organizing your words and thoughts a little more before you share them with the world would be a good idea to avoid being "misunderstood". Also, in your post To AnnaMariaS with the pictures you included, the only distinction between the ones you approve of and don't approve of is simply your own personal taste in what and who you find appealing. 

Anyway, there are some really great articles in this thread to be focussed on. I don't want to distract from them any further.