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Mine was a triggering event, I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me. I don't know if anyone here has ever been cheated on by someone they loved, but I figure, the feeling is as close to dying as I can imagine.We are still together, I never thought I would be able to take someone back who would do something so terrible to a human being, but I did. It's hard, but we are working together with it, he is struggling to gain my trust back, and I am struggling to gain my self worth back. The hardest part of the whole thing, is the psycho female other woman, when he broke ties with her, she went ballistic! She is absolutely insane!

I've been through the same thing. My ex and I have gone back and forth for 10yrs. I kept forgiving him for the sake of our daughters. He spent 3yrs gaining my trust back and this last time around I REALLY believed that he had changed...I WAS WRONG! Actually, he has changed, for the worse! He's a bigger whore than ever, lies more and does more drugs than he did before. We broke up again in November. It's been hard, I haven't been able to work for almost a year now because of the severity of my depression. Now I've been seeing a great guy and I think I just screwed it up royally with the way I've been acting this week. Putting up with someone that cheats on you can and will leave serious emotional scars and can affect future relationships. Please be careful, for your own sake. My boyfriend now is going through hell because of my insecurities and inability to trust. I hope your boyfriend does stay true to you this time around. Good luck!:)
~Wanda~
*I'm so evil even the devil worships me*