MiakaYuki:
"#1 If you don't talk to Alli and all you get is second hand information, how can you be sure it is true?"

The information is actual posts that she made. Are you saying that she did not make these posts or say the things that were stored in chat logs? If she did not, who did? I think a better question is if you are talking to Alli, how can you be sure that it is true? You can’t because she LIES.

"#2 Even if Alli did say things in the past, why does it matter if she isn't saying them now? To add onto that question: If she is sayingthem now, I haven't heard her and I talk to her all the time on #gothic and on aim. I am also on her livejournal friends and she hasn't even mentioned LAM in (I don't even remember the last time I heard of LAM on her journal if ever)."

Did you actually read my posts? I explained that it is important to tell the truth and why. I don't understand why so many people don't seem to have a problem with LIES, yet seem so bothered by the truth and facts that Sean or I post. I first posted something that Allison wrote in her LJ in October, I also posted something that Allison posted in her LJ a couple of weeks ago, which WAS about the board, again a LIE of omission is STILL a lie. Just because YOU can't see the negative things she writes does not mean that she does not write them. For example, I just learned that if you look at the calendar on Allison's LJ and compare that to the posts one can read, you can determine how many you have access to. Look for yourself. Have you had access to ALL of Allison's posts? If you do, for how long?


"Look, I'm very hurt about all of this because Alli has been a good friend to me"

Quite a few people have posted about how good a friend Allison is. Do you guys really know what a good friend really is? A good friend is someone who is HONEST to you and who you are HONEST with. A good friend is someone who not only supports you, but also points out your faults. If people are really such good friends with Allison, why is it that NOBODY seems to be attempting to give her some positive advice about how to fix her life? Why has nobody told Allison that she is almost 30 and should actually get a job so that she can provide for herself and her son and not have to live with her parents. Why has nobody told her not to spend so much time online or in the chat room (staying up till exceedingly late, and waking up in the afternoon), when she SHOULD be getting up and having (maybe even MAKING) breakfast for her son and seeing him off to school? Why did nobody tell her that maybe it was not fair to her son that she would often spend 3 days a week at her boyfriend's house and not see her son for a few days?

Why did nobody tell her not to go out so often to clubs (several nights a week, when he was just a preschooler), and take so many pictures of herself (some of them showing her spreading her legs or lifting her skirt), and posted in PUBLIC (who knows if he may see his mom doing these things someday, especially now that he is old enough to use the internet), or bragging about how she "kinda had sex at blue once...the lights came on so we stopped...." (see this thread ) when she had her 5-year old son waiting for her at home. Maybe a REAL friend might have suggested NOT bringing some of the guys home, especially if they were going to be drunk around her son, or not going out with some stranger to a movie (after ditching the first date), when she had a baby (two-year old) waiting for her at home, but maybe some random stranger and a stupid horror film were more important to Allison than her baby son. I was honestly hoping that Allison would stop and think and try to move forward positively if some truths were pointed out. I hoped that she would feel the need to look for a job after her relationship with Eddie ended and that perhaps she could eventually go to school or find some career that would enable her to get her own place and take care of her son. I am concerned not only about Allison's disaster of a life, but also the fact that she has a child that should not EVER have anything negative in his life and who should be able to rely on his mother.

I find it ironic that people are CONSTANTLY saying that people kiss Sean's ass, yet there is NO evidence of this, yet it seems like quite a few people are obviously kissing Allison's ass. It seems to me that NOBODY has been a true friend to Allison and have only supported her vanity and need to play a victim. I have so many other instances of Allison's lies, but it seems that nobody really cares. I think that honesty is the only way to actually do good things in the world, and I am very sorry to see that many people do not think that the truth is that important.

Anna